God..

Goal

Men dream

 “All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream in the dark recesses of the night awake in the day to find all was vanity. But the dreamers of day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, and make it possible.”

夢想

夢想還是要有的, 萬一實現了呢..

Books..

If you only read the books that everyone else is reading. You can only think what everyone else is thinking.

诱惑

不要害怕诱惑，你抵制了它，说明你是个好人；抵制失败了，说明你曾经是个好人..

45 Rules of Life.

1. Be the person you want to be, because you have to see that person every day.

2. Stay true to yourself, because no one respects a follower.

3. Treat your body like a temple, because unlike Long Island, you only have one.

4. Be nice to your parents, because they might not be around much longer.

5. Cherish love when you find it, because it’s rare.

6. Always take the high road, because the low road is never as fun.

7. Share your wealth, because it’s not fun to spend it alone.

8. Never place happiness on material possessions, because they usually break.

9. Remember those who helped you, because they haven’t forgotten.

10. Help those in need, because you never know when you’ll need them.

11. Stop thinking so much, because your thoughts are the root of most of your problems.

12. Only say nice things, because bad words make even worse enemies.

13. Follow your heart, because there’s no better guide.

14. Give thanks, because it’s way better than asking for forgiveness.

15. Never lie, because you’ll always get caught.

16. Tell your mom you love her, because that’s all she wants to hear.

17. Sing when you feel like singing, because voices are meant to be heard.

18. Dance like nobody’s watching, because that’s how our bodies should move.

19. Always say I love you, because there’s no equivalent substitute.

20. Never cry over spilled milk, because it’s just milk.

21. Forget those who did you wrong, because they definitely forgot you.

22. Don’t discredit anyone, because you might need a job some day.

23. Keep your enemies close, because there’s no better place to keep your eyes on them.

24. Go to bed early, because it’s easier to get up in the morning.

25. Find the silver lining, unless there’s a golden one.

26. Never judge on first impressions, because people always surprise you.

27. Expect the worst, because it’s always better to be surprised than disappointed.

28. Forgive those who hurt you, because you’re only hurting yourself at this point.

29. Never follow the crowd, because you’re better than that.

30. Don’t rely on appearances, because looks fade.

31. Ask questions, because they’re the precursor to answers.

32. Respect your elders, because they’re smarter than you.

33. Make your own path, because it’s the only way to where you want to go.

34. Eat your vegetables, because it will be easier to poop.

35. Remember the good times, because bad times will give you an ulcer.

36. Work hard, because nothing good comes from being lazy.

37. Dream big, because small dreams are never worth the chase.

38. Start today, because tomorrow may never come.

39. Think for yourself, because you’re smarter than everyone else.

40. Be a dreamer, because no one likes a realist.

41. Think before speaking, because it always helps your case.

42. Don’t take life too seriously, because when it’s over you’ll feel like a fool.

43. Be a good friend, because the world needs more.

44. Look people in the eye, because everywhere else will seem disrespectful.

45. Be happy, because that’s the whole point.

千萬不要跟消耗你的人在一起！

跟著蒼蠅會找到廁所，跟著蜜蜂會找到花朵，跟著千萬賺百萬，跟著乞丐會要飯！

現實生活中， 你和誰在一起的確很重要， 甚至能改變你的成長軌跡， 決定你的人生成敗。

和什麼樣的人在一起， 就會有什麼樣的人生。和勤奮的人在一起，你不會懶惰；

和積極的人在一起，你不會消沉；

與智者同行，你會不同凡響；

與高人為伍，你能登上巔峰。

科學家研究認為：“人是唯一能接受暗示的動物。”


積極的暗示，會對人的情緒和生理狀態產生良好的影響，激發人的內在潛能，發揮人的超常水平，使人進取，催人奮進。

遠離消極的人吧！

否則，他們會在不知不覺中偷走你的夢想， 使你漸漸頹廢， 變得平庸。

積極的人像太陽， 照到哪裡哪裡亮；

消極的人像月亮， 初一十五不一樣。

態度決定一切。

有什麼態度， 就有什麼樣的未來；

性格決定命運。

有怎樣的性格， 就有怎樣的人生。


人生有三大幸運：

上學時遇到一位好老師；

工作時遇到一位好師傅；

成家時遇到一個好伴侶。

有時侯他們一個甜美的笑容，一句溫馨的問候，就能使你的人生與眾不同，光彩照人。


生活中最不幸的是：

由於你身邊缺乏積極進取的人，缺少遠見卓識的人，使你的人生變得平平庸庸，黯然無光！


有句話說得好：

你是誰並不重要，重要的是你和誰在一起。

雄鷹在雞窩裡長大，就會失去飛翔的本領。

即使原本的你很優秀，由於周圍那些消極的人影響了你，使你缺乏向上的壓力。

如果你想像雄鷹一樣翱翔天空， 那你就要和群鷹一起飛翔。這也許就是潛移默化的力量和耳濡目染的作用。

如果你想聰明，那你就要和聰明的人在一起,你才會更加睿智；

如果你想優秀，那你就要和優秀的人在一起，你才會出類拔萃。

讀好書，交高人，乃人生兩大幸事。


千萬不要跟消耗你的人在一起！

去愛一個給你正能量的人。找到給你正能量的合作夥伴，每個人的生活都一樣，在細看是碎片，遠看是長河的時間中尋找著幸福，尋找著能夠讓自己幸福的一切事物：健康、平靜、物質、榮譽、成就。

既然你想幸福，就去找一個能夠讓你感到幸福的人吧。

不要找一個沒有激情、沒有好奇心的人過日子或做事業，他們只會和你窩在家裡唉聲嘆氣抱怨生活真沒勁，只會打開電視，翻來覆去的調轉頻道，好像除了看電視再也想不出其它的娛樂項目.有正面能量的人，對很多事情充滿好奇，無論遇到什麼樣的新鮮事物都想嘗試一下，會帶你去嘗試一家新的餐廳，帶你去看一場口碑不錯的電影，帶你去體驗新推出的娛樂節目，帶你去下一個陌生的城市旅行。

你會發現世界很大，值得用盡一生去不斷嘗試。

不要找一個沒有安全感的人過日子，他們一直在排查可能的不幸，和焦慮未來的災難。他們一直在想該怎麼辦？擁有正面能量的人，會對生活樂觀，對自己信任，他們知道生活本來就悲喜交加，所以已經學會坦然面對。

當煩擾來襲時，就理性解決。他們相信人定勝天，確實無法獲勝時，就坦然接受。他們能夠正確認識自己，有自知之明，不會自我貶損也不會自我膨脹，他們在該獨立的時候獨立，該求助的時候求助。


人生的豁達與包容。

擁有正面能量的人，擁有大智慧，他們分得清世界的黑白曲直，不會在人生的道路上跑偏，也不會隨波逐流。不會誇大事情的不利面。

他們知道世界運作的原理，明白人人都有陰晴陽缺。他們在你需要時給你最中肯的建議，有原則卻又求新求變，有主見卻又聽得進勸。

不要找一個容易放棄的人過日子。他們沒有信仰，也沒有夢想。他們遇到挫折的第一反應和最終反應都是逃避，他們可以放棄整個世界。

擁有正面能量的人，堅定自己的信念，擁有人生的目標，知道自己的所需並為之不斷努力。他們歡迎變化也製造進步。當困難來臨，他們不嫌麻煩或貪圖安逸，他們知道山丘後面會有道更美麗的風景。


是的，去愛一個擁有正面能量的人吧。

他們會給你驚喜，同時也會帶給你感悟。他們讓你把路走直，戒斷所有扭曲的價值觀。如果你本身就不是一個擁有足夠正面能量的人，那麼就請你一定要愛一個擁有正面能量的人。

在這道數學題裡，負負並不能得正，另一個同樣具有負面能量的人會把你的人生拖垮，讓具有正面能量的人導正你的靈魂和行為吧，潛移默化中，你會變得更加開朗和幸福。

這一定比任何財富更能長久的滋養你的心靈！

人生是一個選擇的過程，人生最重要的選擇，就是選擇和誰在一起。選擇和誰共事，選擇和誰交朋友，選擇和誰結婚，選擇向誰學習......

你和誰在一起，決定著你的未來。你和誰在一起，由你自己決定，擦亮你的眼睛，用心去尋找。

Idea & Execution

That's why I don't want to hear people's ideas.
I am not interested until I see their execution.

Dad's Wedding Speech

A Dad’s Wedding Speech At His Daughter’s Wedding Ceremony and Party – I decided I would probably begin my speech and toast by addressing you as the “new” family of my daughter . But nevertheless I do believe that it becomes inappropriate simply because now that she is married , you are now “the family” for her . Trust me ; I don’t have a problem with that .

I , in fact , wish for my daughter to have “you” as her priority now . Its time for all of us to consider a backseat in her life . We would certainly gladly accept and appreciate it but would surely request one thing- please make sure you keep her happy ! I am much more than sure that you will always keep her extremely happy . She is going to perhaps be more happy than what she used to be here . But like all fathers , I obsess over my daughter’s joy and happiness which is making me say this over and over again- please keep her happy ! She never was and will never be a burden for me . She is in fact the reason why I breathe and smile . I am getting her married because this is what the law of nature demands . I am helpless in the face of our culture and therefore sending her to your home . She was the happiness of my home and will now light up your home .

A Dad’s Wedding Speech At His Daughter’s Wedding Ceremony – Dedicated to all Fathers

I am giving my world to you . Please make sure it remains beautiful . I am giving away my princess to you . Please make sure she stays as a queen . I have raised her with my sweat and blood and now she is wonderfully perfect . For all the care , love , beauty and warmth my daughter will bring into your lives , I just want her happiness in return—please keep her happy ! If at times you think that my daughter has said or done something wrong , feel free to scold her . But handle her with love . She is very fragile . If at times she feels low , be with her . She just needs a little bit of your attention . If at times she feels sick , show her some care . It’s the medicine that works best for her . If at times she fails to fulfill a responsibility , feel free to chastise her . But empathize with her . She is still learning . Do understand her—please keep her happy ! I don’t mind if I don’t get to see her for months . I don’t mind if I am not able to talk to her on a daily basis . I would be more than happy if she doesn’t remember me much . But , my only motive in life has been my daughter’s happiness which is now in your hands . I beg you , please keep her happy .

Dear son-in-law , these words may not mean much to you now but if you are lucky enough to father a daughter someday , you will appreciate them better when you will find every beat of your heart shouting – “please keep her happy” !

Dedicated to all fathers